Kris Kristofferson 80th Birthday Sale

Use this code GM3DL5XL to get 25% off unlimited copies of The Quality of Effort and The Quality of Effort Workbook through June 30, 2016.

The code is valid only at the book manufacturer’s site, and not on Amazon. Both books are available in print and Kindle editions on Amazon as well.

Kristofferson, who was a Rhodes Scholar, Golden Gloves boxer and a college football and rugby player, was born on June 22, 1936.

2015 Fall Foliage 35% Off Sale!

From October 21 through October 31, 2015 this coupon code, 8GP2PHU7, provides a 35% discount for both The Quality of Effort and The Quality of Effort Workbook when ordered directly from the manufacturer’s online store (coupon does not work on Amazon).

There is no limit to the number of books you can order, or the number of times you can use the coupon between October 21 and 31.
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From “The Quality of Effort” Chapter 8:

“It is the job of coaches and parents to encourage those dreams [of playing sports as a career] and to prepare the student-athlete cognitively, emotionally, physically, socially and spiritually for the day…when a primary activity other than sport is appropriate. The student-athlete who receives only playing time and notoriety from his or her schooling is being cheated.”

Use Coupon Code 8GP2PHU7 for 35% off as many copies of The Quality of Effort and The Quality of Effort Workbook as you’d like between October 21 and October 31, 2015. Click here to order.

“The Quality of Effort inspires coaches and parents to divert their eyes from the scoreboard and focus on nurturing the heart, mind and body of today’s young athlete. Reggie Marra offers a blueprint that encourages our children to become not only better athletes but better people. He delivers a powerful message filled with humanity and honest answers to questions that we sometimes think but may not want to ask. The Quality of Effort is a wonderful read and I would recommend it to anyone who works with kids, is a kid, or is living vicariously through their kids (you know who you are).”
– Anthony Perrone, VP, Challenger Division, Cortland American Little League
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“The Quality of Effort has helped me reinterpret my career as a professional athlete – providing both relief and direction. The book’s message would have been invaluable years ago when I was starting out as well as at the height of my career. Reggie Marra offers a map to tomorrow’s competitive edge, a map that requires effort – not necessarily in doing more drills or pushups, but in taking responsibility for all aspects of your approach to life.”
– Ryan Leech, Professional Mountain Biker (Retired) and Integral Master Coach,™ http://ryanleech.
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Click here to order (and don’t forget your Coupon Code: 8GP2PHU7)!

2014 Holiday Sale – 35% Off!

From December 8 through December 16 this coupon code, 8GP2PHU7, provides a 35% discount for both The Quality of Effort and The Quality of Effort Workbook when ordered directly from the manufacturer’s online store (coupon does not work on Amazon).

There is no limit to the number of books you can order, or the number of times you can use the coupon between December 8 and 16.
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From “The Quality of Effort” Chapter 8:

“It is the job of coaches and parents to encourage those dreams [of playing sports as a career] and to prepare the student-athlete cognitively, emotionally, physically, socially and spiritually for the day…when a primary activity other than sport is appropriate. The student-athlete who receives only playing time and notoriety from his or her schooling is being cheated.”

Use Coupon Code 8GP2PHU7 for 35% off as many copies of The Quality of Effort and The Quality of Effort Workbook as you’d like between December 8 and December 16, 2014. Click here to order.

“The Quality of Effort inspires coaches and parents to divert their eyes from the scoreboard and focus on nurturing the heart, mind and body of today’s young athlete. Reggie Marra offers a blueprint that encourages our children to become not only better athletes but better people. He delivers a powerful message filled with humanity and honest answers to questions that we sometimes think but may not want to ask. The Quality of Effort is a wonderful read and I would recommend it to anyone who works with kids, is a kid, or is living vicariously through their kids (you know who you are).”
– Anthony Perrone, VP, Challenger Division, Cortland American Little League
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“The Quality of Effort has helped me reinterpret my career as a professional athlete – providing both relief and direction. The book’s message would have been invaluable years ago when I was starting out as well as at the height of my career. Reggie Marra offers a map to tomorrow’s competitive edge, a map that requires effort – not necessarily in doing more drills or pushups, but in taking responsibility for all aspects of your approach to life.”
– Ryan Leech, Professional Mountain Biker (Retired) and Integral Master Coach,™ http://ryanleech.
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Click here to order (and don’t forget your Coupon Code: 8GP2PHU7)!

ALS Ice Bucket Challenge – Plus

My wonderful niece, Yuni (Yunilka Nuñez), aka U.S. Navy Aviation Electrician’s Mate Nuñez, called me out to participate in the challenge, so here I am.

I’m doing this especially for my St. Anrthony’s, Nepera Park, Yonkers NY, Class of ’68 elementary school classmate, Rich Eletto, with whom I reconnected almost two years ago, and who was diagnosed with ALS several months ago. He’s got a great spirit and sense of humor.

To enhance my participation a bit, I’m going to donate a percentage of profits from the sale of The Quality of Effort and The Quality of Effort Workbook to the ALS Association for all sales through the end of September, 2014 as follows:

30% of profits from sales of both books purchased directly through the publisher’s e-stores (click on titles above or here for the book and here for the workbook).

The books are also available on Amazon, but the the publisher’s e-store pays a higher per-book royalty–so the 30% will be higher as well.

 

If you’d like multiple copies (5 or more) of either book for your organization or team, email me at rmarra@paradoxedge.com and I will give you a discount code. Same 30% donation applies.

I’d also like to acknowledge some friends, classmates and former students who set the example in the last few weeks: Gary Greenhill, Tim Holland and Tom Hanney (Sacred Heart High School, class of ’80), Tom Lyons (SHHS, ’81), Mark Maggiola (SHHS, ’75), and my classmates, Bunny Santullo—sorry for the “Smith” in the video, and Rose DeVito Nedwick, whom I forgot to mention in the video (SHHS, ’72), Mike Bardunias (Iona College), Chris Rogers (Salpointe Catholic via Cardinal Spellman in da Bronx), Steve Butala (Rich’s and my classmate at St. Anthony’s), and Michael Brant DeMaria (composer and musician extraordinaire).

Transformation Beyond Sport

In keeping with The Quality of Effort’s focus on sport as one among many healthy vehicles for ongoing human development and transformation (which Ryan Leech and I explored in our interview–see post below), in this show, which aired in June on CTV-21 in Connecticut, Lindsay Kelkres and I explore the transformative potentials of poetry, art in general, and Integral Coaching®.

ProVisions Interview with Ryan Leech

I was fortunate enough to spend some time with Ryan Leech as part of his ProVisions interview series. Ryan is a fellow Integral Master Coach™, gifted yoga instructor, Professional Mountain Biker and good friend. His stewardship during the interview allowed us to move into some surprising, and I think essential, territory.
Our conversation began with The Quality of Effort and our respective experiences with sport, and evolved into a wonderful exploration of sport as metaphor for life: success, loss, culture, development, practice, intention, authenticity, resistance, self-doubt, compassion, fear, the illusion of control, presence, embodiment, death and love. Even poetry showed up toward the end.
Check out the interview and let me know what you think. Check out Ryan’s work on YouTube and at www.ryanleech.com.

What’s Love Got to Do With It?

“The Quality of Effort,” as it applies to sports and to the rest of our lives beyond the “arena,” ultimately comes down to living an aware life in love. Yikes, some readers might say. What’s love got to do with it?

Three perspectives on love, among others, have informed me over the years:

  • Love is a wholehearted ‘yes’ to belonging. – Br. David Steindl-Rast
  • Love is the will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth. – M. Scott Peck
  • Love is the absence of fear.A Course in Miracles

Briefly, imagine moving through your day each day with a wholehearted ‘yes’ to belonging, first to and with yourself–fully and unconditionally loving yourself with kindness and compassion amid all your beauty, blemishes, dreams, desires, regrets and judgments–all of you.  Then imagine that same wholehearted yes to belonging to and with your family, your friends, your colleagues at work, your student-athletes, your opponents, strangers on the street…and take that as far as you can. Where do you draw the line for belonging?

Next, imagine your level of willingness to extend yourself–to go beyond what feels comfortable, in order to better understand who you are in the world, and your willingness to do that for others as well. For whom are you willing to feel some discomfort in order to help them see and live more clearly? Family? Friends? Colleagues…Strangers?

And imagine what it might feel like to engage yourself and the world at large without fear, or at least without the influence of fear on what you choose and how you behave. That includes everything from your life’s trajectory, to the outcome of the game, the at-bat, the free-throw. Imagine yourself living moment to moment without fear. Imagine your student-athletes competing without fear.

Any one of these, and all of them together comprise the quality of effort. Easy to understand, perhaps, and quite challenging to live. But why shoot for less?

That’s what love’s got to do with it, as far as I can tell.

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Foundation for Inner PeaceA Course in Miracles.  2nd ed.  Glen Ellen CA: FIP, 1976.

Peck, M. Scott, M.D.  The Road Less Traveled.  New   York: Touchstone-Simon & Schuster, 1978.

Steindl-Rast, Brother David.  Gratefulness, the Heart of Prayer: An Approach to Life in Fullness.  New York/Ramsey: Paulist, 1984.